The Second Rape
A tabloid has posted a picture of the woman Kobe Bryant has allegedly raped. Her name is supposed to be protected under the law for rape cases, but Bryant's lawyer "accidentally" revealed it four times in court, and then made the claim that she had had sex with "three different men" the night before the rape was alleged to have taken place. Now, a picture of the girl taken at her prom has been published, face and all, alongside her name. The picture shows the girl revealing a garter belt she had on, and next to it, the headline is, "Did She Really Say No?"
"I think it's one thing to show a face, and we can all debate that for a really long time," said Lucky editor in chief Kim France... "Personally I'm against it, but I think it's a valid debate. But taking a photograph of a girl at her prom, having fun with her femininity, at a moment when everybody's allowed to feel free and sexual, and using it with the headline 'Did she really say no?' in the context of a rape case? I think that's horrifying." (From Salon)
I have to admit, I don't know if mentioning the Kobe Bryant case is something I want to do, because any attention that gets brought to this case is too much attention. On the one hand, there is the victims privacy, and on the other hand, there is the outrage over the violation of that privacy. Unfortunately, it's all connected to the same stupid, tragic body of power and domination. Because what if we believe what Kobe's defenders (and Bill O'Reilly) seem to imply- that this woman lied and is suing Kobe simply because "she wants the money"? If that were the case- and I am not saying it is- what is accomplished by a smear campaign? If the message is that women reporting these crimes are going to be publicly humiliated and attacked- before their innocence or guilt is established- then isn't it an attempt at pre-emptive coercion and control over women? The same barbarism is at work now that a court in Colorado has ruled that "third party consent" is acceptable when it comes to raping unconscious girls. In other words, if you rape a girl who is unconscious, but you can prove that someone else told you she said she would have sex with you, you are not guilty of rape. Interestingly enough, this is also in a sports context- football recruits at the University of Colorado in a gang rape case.
"I think it's one thing to show a face, and we can all debate that for a really long time," said Lucky editor in chief Kim France... "Personally I'm against it, but I think it's a valid debate. But taking a photograph of a girl at her prom, having fun with her femininity, at a moment when everybody's allowed to feel free and sexual, and using it with the headline 'Did she really say no?' in the context of a rape case? I think that's horrifying." (From Salon)
I have to admit, I don't know if mentioning the Kobe Bryant case is something I want to do, because any attention that gets brought to this case is too much attention. On the one hand, there is the victims privacy, and on the other hand, there is the outrage over the violation of that privacy. Unfortunately, it's all connected to the same stupid, tragic body of power and domination. Because what if we believe what Kobe's defenders (and Bill O'Reilly) seem to imply- that this woman lied and is suing Kobe simply because "she wants the money"? If that were the case- and I am not saying it is- what is accomplished by a smear campaign? If the message is that women reporting these crimes are going to be publicly humiliated and attacked- before their innocence or guilt is established- then isn't it an attempt at pre-emptive coercion and control over women? The same barbarism is at work now that a court in Colorado has ruled that "third party consent" is acceptable when it comes to raping unconscious girls. In other words, if you rape a girl who is unconscious, but you can prove that someone else told you she said she would have sex with you, you are not guilty of rape. Interestingly enough, this is also in a sports context- football recruits at the University of Colorado in a gang rape case.
